The book Jesus Always speaks to me in profound ways almost daily. Author Sarah Young – who suffers from chronic illnesses - writes throughout the 365 devotions as if Jesus is speaking DIRECTLY to you, based on scripture. Maybe you caught in my previous post Gifts of Joy how a friend (and I believe God) gifted me with this book that has meant so much to me and countless others. If you didn’t, I encourage you to read it – it’s brief – then come on back here.
Two weeks ago the day’s entry literally stopped me in my mental tracks with a thought I had never considered before, which is this… dwelling on our difficult circumstances can become an idol.
I thought idols were the desirable things we worship other than God, like money… people… education… careers. Because of copyright restrictions I can only share a short excerpt, but the next time you’re standing in the checkout at Hobby Lobby pick it up and flip to October 10 so you can read it in its entirety, or better yet buy it from your favorite bookstore for daily inspiration. She writes:
“A troublesome problem can become an idol in your mind. If you consistently think about something – pleasant or unpleasant – more than you think about Me, you are practicing a subtle form of idolatry. So it is wise to examine your thoughts.” ~ Sarah Young, Jesus Always
Again, she writes as if Jesus is talking to you.
Do you devote most of your mental energies to your problems? I confess that right after my cancer diagnosis last November that I sure did! Almost every thought I had included cancer, some thoughts based on reality while the rest centered on fallacy. My oncologist assured me that my Stage 1 cancer was very treatable yet my mind was still planning my funeral service and the parting words I’d leave with my children.
How could focusing on money problems, marital problems, health problems, career problems, children problems, relationship problems, self-image problems, world problems, you-name-it problems become an idol? Not that Young puts it this way, but I think it’s because when we dwell on our trials, we're electing to trap ourselves in a form of emotional bondage, versus choosing Christ, who came to set the captives free. When our struggles are the first thing we think of when we awake in the morning and when we collapse into bed at night, we’re neglecting to “take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” We’re allowing our minds to run amok instead of surrendering our cares to the One who can and desires to bring us peace amidst our suffering.
So what’s the panacea for those of us who earn a gold medal in stinkin’ thinkin’?
Once we’ve become aware of our negative pattern of thinking we’re to confess it to Jesus, then ask Him to fill our thoughts with Him and other good things. We also need to take action by padding our minds with the Word. (I’m preaching to myself, here.) This requires discipline like anything else worth attaining. We don’t expect to drop 10 pounds without CONSISTENTLY changing our eating habits or hitting the gym. A day here and a day there of doing what we know is right simply won’t cut it. But you know that.
I’ve shared so many powerful messages from Jesus Always on-air during my morning show that I expect to receive a royalty check in the mail any day now. And perhaps a phone call from Ms. Young’s lawyer.
May the Lord grant you peace as you intentionally choose to walk with Him each day thinking about...
...“whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable.” ~ Philippians 4:8
Shortly after I was diagnosed with breast cancer, an unexpected package arrived in the mail. It was from a sweet friend named Susan who lives hundreds of miles away in California and had endured a bi-lateral mastectomy. Knowing exactly what I’d need, she gave thoughtful gifts that were both practical and spiritual. A fanny pack to hold my surgical drains (practical) and a book of devotions by Sarah Young called Jesus Always (spiritual). I don’t think Susan knew it at the time, but God used her in an incredible way in my life.
First off, I had been meaning to order a fanny pack for myself but hadn’t gotten around to it. The one she sent arrived just in time for my mastectomy. Thank you, Susan, and thank you, Lord, a.k.a. Jehovah Jireh (God Provides)!
Now the book. Honestly, I didn’t look at it very closely when it arrived because when I pulled it out of the mailbox and its packaging we were in the car headed somewhere. Not to mention, it’s a daily devotional and since we were quickly approaching the New Year it seemed like a good idea to wait before diving in.
When January rolled around and I finally looked at it closely, it brought tears to my eyes. Why? Partly because I was suffering from anxiety and cried at everything then. (I’m so thankful that over time my nerves have begun to heal.) But mostly because at the top of the cover were five meaningful words: Embracing Joy in His Presence.
I hadn’t shared this with Susan, but God had grabbed my attention three months before my cancer diagnosis about the need for more joy in my life. HIS joy. I was at a Christian conference that was centered on the Lord’s mercy when the Holy Spirit whispered into my heart the words from Nehemiah 8:10 “The joy of the Lord is your strength.” I share that story in greater detail in Joy is Contagious…Cancer Isn’t, which should be available next month.
After that hallowed experience, the word JOY came to me from every divine direction. I know He was lovingly preparing me for the difficult journey ahead. He revealed to me that I had lost much of my joy and He expected me to face cancer with an abundance of it. And the amazing part was realizing that I could. That anyone can IF we remain plugged into that source of joy: Jesus.
I’ve not always done that well, remained plugged in to my Savior, seeking joy in His presence, even after His gentle yet powerful reminder that THAT is exactly what I need. But the good thing is that when I stumble and stray off course that it’s now obvious to me. Then I make a date with him for some one-on-one time just like I would with an inimitable friend and we have a refreshing visit.
This is not at all what I sat down to write. I planned to share a short excerpt from Jesus Always that deals with making our troubles an idol…a truly novel thought. But maybe you appreciate knowing why Young’s book means so much to me and I can share her insights on negative vs. pleasurable idols next time. Until then, let’s all reflect on the people, like Susan, that have blessed our lives and consider how we can foster and spread more joy.
[CHIME IN: Has God ever shared a message with you, either directly or through a trusted friend, to help you through a difficult time? If so, please share by replying to this post with the intent of encouraging others.]
Yesterday I shared a few thoughts on the importance of being part of a community. If you missed that post, you can read every disjointed word of it HERE. Well, today, I want to briefly share another example of community because this excites me so much! It pertains to what I received in the mail today.
This is our neighborhood lifestyle magazine that Yvonne Leffler edits and N2 Publishing prints and mails. N2P’s vision is to bring neighbors closer together through magazines that feature stories written by and about those living within recipe-sharing distance of one another. I promised Yvonne a couple of months ago that I’d submit a story for the October publication about the soon-to-be-released book Joy is Contagious…Cancer Isn’t and my breast cancer support group’s online auction. She said she’d welcome it, and finally it's here!!
I consider Yvonne a friend and enjoy every chance I get to chat with her. Her British accent captivates me. She could rattle off the atomic numbers and weights from the Periodic Table of Elements and I’d hang on to every word. Trust me, you would too because she’s so doggone delightful. (Once she sends me a snapshot of herself I'll add it to this post so you can see her sweet self!) [Edited 10/21/07 to include photo.]
Thank you, Yvonne, for allowing me to promote my book and The Rack Pack’s current fundraiser. And if you’re a neighbor reading this, please submit some stories, or else the magazine runs the risk of becoming The Tales of Kim Tisor and I know you don’t want that. Already in November's issue you'll read a sob story about my endearing dog, Carly, because Yvonne needed it.
Poor girl. She was really in need of some puppy pampering prior to me taking this picture that I submitted with the article, but there was no time. She's 16-years-old and smells like she looks but we all still love her immensely.
And I plan to write a short blurb about my daughter, Rachael, who was nominated by her 6th grade class to represent her grade on the local high school's homecoming court earlier this month. For the record, my children look nothing like me.
Being a contributor for the magazine as well as writing this little blog does my heart good. More than anything I hope this becomes another source of community for both you and me. Please, feel free to leave a comment or shoot me an email. I like to "chat" even if you don't have a cool British accent.
Funny that the title "Author" appears above this description yet I have no idea what to share about myself in this space! How about my first name is Kim. My last name is Tisor. Tisor rhymes with miser, though I try not to be one.
For more information about me, please visit the author page.